I have returned from the Matrix!

I finally saw The Matrix movie a couple of months ago prompted by my boyfriend who believes lol.  That is the only reason I chose that as my title of my long awaited return post/

Where have I been you ask? LIVING – like for real, I never lived like I have this past year.  Shortly before I did my last naughty little blog post I started “talking” to someone.  He is someone I know from high school and while we were friendly kinda we were not friends and did not know much about each other at all.  He has hit me up on facebook like 4-5 in the past 5 years or so and it was just never the right time for me and honestly thought it was weird and had no curiosity whatsoever.

{Side note: I feel like you only know what the term “talking” means if you are and 80’s baby}

As I may have discussed previously the past ten years or so have been through hell generally and in the relationship department.

But you know how they say things happen for a reason? Well Donald Dump running for President facilitated me finding my soulmate and truly beginning living my life.  We both hate him and our Facebook friendship began developing over our posts regarding the situation.  It seemed most people we know felt the opposite so it sorta became me and him battling it out politically on Facebook with everyone else.

Then January 2017 he proposed lets get together and smoke some pot soon. We conversated a bit and flirted some on messenger that month.  Then early February messaged me to hang out and I ignored it lol.  Then on Valentines Day he messaged me, we xhatted for a minute then he texted me a vday poem about ending white supremacy together hahahahaha.

We started texting that day and a week later I invited him over to smoke, I was nervous he was mad casual. The heavy flirting started immediately. From that day I could not believe how easy it was between us.  It scared me I thought I was imagining things, wishful thinking, dreaming – all of it.

Fast forward today, we are a couple, we are happy, we are in love.  We are moving to Vermont in the Fall/Winter.  It is genuine and true and everything I have ever wanted in a life partner, life long love affair.  I never see my life without him in it.

He has been amazing for my mind, body and soul! He ahs taught me to be happy with my body, how to let go of the negativity in my life, to stand up for myself, to face my fears and anxiety, to create goals and most importantly how to be loved.

We are so alike , we love so much of the same things and love sharing individual likes with one another. We love learning about each other and learning new things together. We love to relax, eat, travel and love.

I am finally really in a place to develop my writing and I am setting aside time once a week to blog so stay tuned 🙂



Ugh…16 Days

Hey Y’all !!!!                                                                                                                                                 {Yes I live in New Yawk but my Momma was a Southerner and I lived in Florida close  to 5 years and I like it }

I know two posts ago I said I was going to really try to get put one post a week.  And I just log in to WordPress and see ” It has been 16 Days…” and I am like Damnnnnnnnnnn It!

Any way I was going to write anyway because I have so much on my mind the past few days.  I feel focused.  I feel like my old self – from 25 years ago. And that’s good, for the most part.  I am trying to create a new routine, set writing and publishing goals and make time for my other activities. Those are supposed to be part of  my what I want to write about too! All while trying not to continue doing the OCD thing I do where I make a list of all the things to do and start at the top every day. And never finish or get anywhere! Baby Steps.  Really tiny baby feet steps lol.

So is it really weird that I have Tampons that I bought in a multi pack that I don’t use and I offered to give away on Facebook. I said to answer via private message or text for obvious reasons.  But it was just ignored. So are people like – WTF is wrong with this crazy woman? It is a shame to throw away and I don’t know if I can donate somewhere?  Any references please comment.

I mean I don’t care all that much what most people on Facebook think of me. Cause I  also started a Social Media purge this week. Deleting people and pages that are not relevant or meaningful to me.  Some family and extended family included.  People talk about me anyway lol.  And I was keeping “friends” on that I had barely or never even interacted with. Then all these pages I have absent minded clicked or been asked/pushed to Like – GONE!  Timelines and news feeds are looking much better!  And this is good because I will be more inclined to use these platforms and interact with more people :).  I am also keeping family from everything but Facebook.

I am going to save some more of this stuff on my mind for next post.  Got some mail and other crap to catch up on and clean up before 11:41.

Remember – Sharing is Caring !!! And all that you do will make a difference to me!!!

I will have another post out by Sunday – Promise y’all!


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Brand Loyalty – It Should Mean Something

I believe that having Loyalty to a brand should mean that you get Loyalty back from the brand.  Especially in today’s world where prices are so ridiculously high even for “no-frills” or store brands.  I want to know that my consistent purchases from a Brand are recognized and valued.  And I believe we should get something back in return.  That is why I love companies that have any type of reward program.  It shows they care about more than just the money.  Companies that don’t, well they kinda suck – even if I buy your stuff anyway.

The Kellogg’s Brand and their Kellogg’s Family Rewards {KFR} Program.  You don’t realize how many products are from the Kellogg’s Brand Family until you get on the site and take a look.  Besides your regular Kellogg’s cereal I never knew Eggo or Morning Star Farms were part of the family.  There are many others too, I am sure you all know, I was not aware of most of them honestly.

Here is the link to their site: https://www.kelloggsfamilyrewards.com

Collect points from specially marked packages, add your loyalty shopper cards for participating stores or upload receipts and watch the points add up.  Kellogg’s also runs tons of bonus offers – for multiple package buys on one trip or for a new or featured product. Not to mention how awesome they are when they give points away – just for signing in and the amazing Shutterfly codes for all kinds of fun items.  Rack up the points and redeem for all kinds of rewards from kids coloring pages to gift cards to electronics. This is my favorite Loyalty program simply because they get it, they care – genuinely about their consumers.

Recently I was having glitches show up on their website which made some areas quite hard to navigate, read and interact with.  Add in my prescription progressive glasses for the near/far sighted vision I have and I gave up most times and logged off. But then I really wanted to write about this program and how much I love it. And as someone who LOVESSS to give her opinion I reached out to them on Facebook to let them know how horrible the site was and that I wanted to feature it on my blog but not with the glitches. They wrote me back in 3 hours apologizing and asking for a private message with screen shots and details of my device and OS.  Due to computer problems, I couldn’t get back to them until yesterday when I sent photos and a short demonstration video.  They again got right back to me.


Please let me know if you are a member also  and how you participate or  write me if you are not and end up checking it out – whether you join or not.  Thanks for reading 🙂